Honesty Or pretence : If a guy you love so bad, doesn't love you!

" I would want honesty! ". - Says Erica. She added, "Either way it hurts!.. so it's better to get hurt early than wen love becomes irreplaceable

Many more share this view, dont forget to share your view via comment below! But first, let go through Erica's story and the reason for her opinion!

"I once met a guy and I liked him so much!.. I knew I would love him to look at me too.. but I was contented with just loving him!.. because I thought it impossible for him to love me back!.. it hurt but I could take it!"

She added - At his sign of interest, I started expecting him to feel something back but it was still bearable!..Then I approached and asked for his true feelings.. he told me he liked me back but there can't be anything between us!.. of course I understood and even though I wanted more could still bear d whole thing!...

When I made up my mind to give up, he would change, I knew it really really was impossible!.. We were honest with each other and I appreciated that!..

But wen I tot It was all over, he asked me out U know how that made me feel! At Times I wake up feeling the impossibility of d whole situation!.. I would get all happy and contented! it was cool.

Then suddenly, two months later, on a faithful morning, the relationship ended...

Why you might ask? - said Erica *sarcastically*
 Because he wasn't ready for one! That was it for me!.. I was devastated!..How am I expected to move forward! Did he really ever love me?

Thoughts like that kept coming over and over!..

Do u know how much I would Ave gone back to the days of impossibility!.. It would Ave been easier to bear!  Am still not over it!

And I might never get over it!!. So I would say!  I would stick to honesty!

Like!.. "I love you and the honest reply! ===> "I'm sorry, I don't love you"!

I sure will cry but will be fine!`~she concluded! 

What about you?? 
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